1. I don’t care how you care to handle your self esteem, but mine doesn’t need to be verbalized to anyone because I am happy with myself.
2. I’m glad you have your interpersonal relationships and appreciate you taking the time to form opinions about mine, but in the end your input on the matter does not affect my interpersonal relationships.
3. So your significant other has drug problems that they are working through and your not sure how you feel about that, but my place in that situation is to back your choice and I’d hope you do the same for me.
4. we are all fucking weird so I don’t take your criticism on my oddities in a way that would drive me to change them.